Hey y'all, I'm Nathalie. I'm a friend, spiritual care provider, and student of speculative fiction.

I am committed to tending to abolitionist futures by accompanying my community through the soul-growing work of accountability.

My offerings include...

  • Monthly Rehearsals in Defiance are monthly online gatherings where we practice responding to conflict with imagination, courage, and care. We take a conflict from a movie, show, and/or book and practice imagining ourselves into the scenario to figure out one move we could try to make to transform the conflict. You can learn more and sign up for an upcoming rehearsal here.

  • Sex, Death & Dragons podcast, co-created with my friend Maya, where we attempt to understand why we - two abolitionists involved in grief work and conflict transformation - are so thirsty for Fourth Wing. (You can follow us on Instagram or listen to us on Apple Podcasts or Spotify)

  • Spiritual accompaniment for people who are working to deepen their accountability practices; moving through transition; hoping to develop practices and rituals that bring you meaning; and/or to name and connect with the guides who help you live into your values and commitments

  • Periodic online workshops that use pop culture to help us explore how we might live more deeply into our values, such as a Fall 2025 class exploring Wicked & how we defy (society's) gravity.

All of these are offered as part of a pay-what-you-can gift economy, with limited availability.